AGE GAP IN RELATIONSHIP

Parents lock up your sons the predatory older women/cougars are on the loose. Many people have gone Madonna by getting involved with younger men. Older women don’t want to date or marry guys of their own age & are now turning to younger men for love and support. There’s nothing wrong with dating someone young but the boundary should not be crossed by dating someone as young as your little brother or son. Reasons why older women prefer younger men maybe because of love, or to boost their ego, they find younger men to be open-minded, they make them feel younger, they are physical attracted to them, to prove they have the power to attract younger men, or maybe because girls just want to have some fun.

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We have all heard by now that J-Lo 42 is dating her new 24 years old toy boy Casper Smart (18 years age gap between them), which buy the way her ex-hubby Marc Anthony doesn’t approve, he’s even refused to shoot scenes with J-Lo for their Latin talent show.

The one direction teenage singer Harry Styles 17 who is basically still a child, is now rumoured to be dating 32 year old Caroline Flack’s (15 years age gap)..is that legal?  Apparently Harry’s mother Anne does not approve the relationship, a source told Star magazine: ‘Anne doesn’t want Harry to end up getting hurt. ‘Caroline is a worldly woman, who is never short of male attention. Anne just feels Harry needs to stick to girls his own age and says Caroline should back off!’. Caroline broke her silence by saying, ‘I feel like I shouldn’t have to worry about what I do. But it’s a social thing that people aren’t accepting of big age gaps.’ Defending the 15 year age gap between them, she added: ‘I keep thinking, “What have I done wrong?” But I haven’t done anything wrong. ‘What’s hard for me to get my head around is people saying it’s disgusting. I don’t think it is.’ ‘If two people like each other and get on, why does anyone else find a negative in it? ‘I know it’s human nature for everyone to gossip. But why say it’s bad? No one’s being hurt.’

As long as the two parties can relate to each other well and they’re in love they might be able to overcome their age difference, but as the other person grows older may results in conflict of interest and I think  this is a key factor that should be considered when dating someone with a big age gap, not forgetting to what happened to Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher . Does the age gap difference matters and what is the right age gap in a relastionship?